Tip #1: Just Be
How often are we with our kids, but not really with them? I know that even when I'm with Kate, I'm often checking something on my cell phone, talking to someone, or focusing on my day's to-do list. But sometimes our kids need us to just BE with them. So do it. Set aside some time each day when you will focus solely on your kids, and don't allow yourself to become distracted. Play with them, talk to them, learn about them. And for a few minutes, just be with them. You might be surprised what you learn, how you feel, and how much more love you feel for them.